Paul Eres ([info]rinku) wrote,
@ 2008-04-07 16:08:00
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It's strange to remember how arbitrarily I met most of the people I know on LJ, and how chancey it was, how easily I could have never met them. Some of them made sense (such as friends-of-friends or similar LJ communities -- I met [info]miyu_sakura and [info]newedition through Objectivism communities for instance) but others are just totally random and arbitrary.

I think I met [info]wynand because of his strange comments in [info]ishalltriumph's LJ. Now we've made a game together and are working on another and have met each other in a few of his writing group meetings. But why did I even notice his comments there? Maybe it was his strange avatar, which was a picture of him with a turtleneck like shirt pulled up over most of his face, just under his eyes, which made me check out his LJ.

[info]harlockhero and I, years ago, were using the "view random livejournal" button in search of anyone who wasn't boring, and one of the ones we came across was [info]ubermensch. Eventually we'd have hundreds of IM discussions and go to a Skinny Puppy concert, and he let me use his book Raberata (which he sent me a free copy of) for the background universe/setting for one of my games. Yet it was all through a random number generator.

Strangest are those that I don't remember how I met. I don't remember how I found [info]womanonfire's LJ at all for instance.

And even outside of LJ, a lot of my best online friends I met through the Ohrrpgce game engine community, between 1998 and 2002. But I could easily have chosen some other game engine (perhaps the horrible RPG Maker, or whatever) instead, and would have a completely different set of long-term friends. It'd be strange never having met [info]komera or [info]harlockhero or [info]konami or [info]moogle1 or [info]jsangspar or [info]orchard_l or [info]longetech or [info]charbile or [info]fyrewulff or [info]arque or [info]dgowers or [info]eternalhachi or [info]novakaiser or [info]specplosive, considering how much of my experience is related to doing things with them and talking to them.



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[info]konami
2008-04-08 07:05 am UTC (link)
These days I found it more strange about how few people I meet.

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[info]rinku
2008-04-08 07:28 am UTC (link)
Try joining communites, entering contests, things like that.

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[info]konami
2008-04-08 07:38 am UTC (link)
I do. it seems nothing really meshes. It makes me think perhaps there's a few time in your life you really meet people and after that everybody else is based on that. Right now I'm still based on 1998.

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[info]rinku
2008-04-08 08:14 am UTC (link)
Maybe, but it could just be that you were friendlier then too, or more open, etc.

Or you could be right and that humanity may be hard-wired to make friends mainly in one's late teens or early 20s, and anything after that would be more difficult. That would make sense evolutionarily.

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[info]rinku
2008-04-08 07:29 am UTC (link)
Although meeting people in general is slow for me too, I only make about three new good friends online a year. It's just that it adds up the longer you live.

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[info]newedition
2008-04-08 10:49 am UTC (link)
Checking in to say hello (and that I am immensely grateful that we did meet).

Busy. There are 38 work days left of school! Of course the goal is not to "get through" by counting down-- one must also thrive-- but I will still be quite glad to get out of here! I've also been doing a lot of good things outside of school lately. I trust that you are doing the same!

Until we speak again,
~

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[info]rinku
2008-04-08 12:33 pm UTC (link)
Try not to think of yourself as so busy all the time, in 10 years or so very little of what you're doing now will be important, so you should feel free to just do what is fun rather than what you "have to" do.

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[info]ubermensch
2008-04-08 05:00 pm UTC (link)
cosmic coincidence control center

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[info]jsangspar
2008-04-08 06:14 pm UTC (link)
I recall you finding womanonfire through the indie game community; I remember you pushing her games pretty hard at first.

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[info]rinku
2008-04-08 06:37 pm UTC (link)
I think I knew her on LJ before I started reading indie game blogs or going to indie game forums.

I may have heard of Endless Forest before knowing her on LJ, but I'm not sure.

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